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BOOK : So That What Ending
Three year old eyes peered up at me as I knelt down trying to find the words that Daddy was not coming home after I got the call from the coroner.
“Don’t cry mama. I’m still here and you’re still here.”
Those words will forever echo through the hallways of my soul. Brilliance from the mouths of babes.
My first love died of a heroin overdose. We were just 24 years old. He did not survive. But I did— I would love to tell you that the experience scared me straight and that I went on to create a wonderful life immediately realizing how short and precious life is… but that’s not what happened. I spent the next decade wildly waging war against the demons in my head, trying to drown them out with drugs, booze and bad dudes.
A dangerous self sabotage question took root as I cast those ashes to wind… “What’s the point?” It rattled around like a raging monster in a cage wreaking havoc on my life.
The questions we ask ourselves become the thoughts we think. Those thoughts stimulate feelings. Those feelings inspire action. Those actions taken become the behaviors that dictate our results.
The results I created from that self sabotaging question led me down a dangerous path. I didn’t know back then that questions were powerful keys to unlocking the subconscious patterns that we willingly run on autopilot.
I have now dedicated my life’s work to mentoring others to help them identity constraints so that they can alleviate them. That process starts with changing the default question that is running rampant in their mind. Once they realize that they have the key in their pocket, they can unlock those caged emotions. Those lurking monsters turn out to be nothing more than memories too long suppressed.
We have all been the victim of circumstance in one way or another. We all have self sabotage patterns— that all started as solutions, by the way. We all have survived things that others have lost their lives to. The question I want to plant in your subconscious today, is SO THAT WHAT???
You survived, so that what?
So you could waste a decade in self destructive tendencies like I did? So you could miss out on your children being little because you were lost in your own pain like I did? So that you could go back to your abuser again like I did?
No.
That’s not why you survived… there is a higher and better reason. It is my mission to help you to find yours sooner. To help you to see that you are worthy and success and fulfillment before you waste another day of your life giving your power away to a victim narrative.
It took me ten years to see it, but I can tell you now that I survived so that I could cherish the time I have with my children. I survived so that I could know real and true love. I survived so that I could create a successful business that helps so many people. I survived so I could write this book and reach you today. I survived so that I could change the way the world sees the abuse cycle. I survived so that I could create The Seven Layer Transformation™️ and systematically impact how we process and expand our emotions so that we can create success and fulfillment.
Why did you survive???
So that what???
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